There’s a lot of uncertainty in the world right now, and it feels pretty weird to be ringing in my 28th birthday in isolation due to COVID-19. Yesterday, I felt like I was drowning in all the uncertainty about my future and the fact that I’d be ringing in a new year locked away at home. But the truth is that I have so so many things to be grateful for. And I know we will all weather this storm together. So I decided to sit down and write a letter to my 18-year-old self in hopes it would remind me how much I’ve been through in the last ten years. And how everything always works out in the end.
Hi Kelsey,
Happy 18th birthday! I’d tell you that I hope your birthday is wonderful, but I already know it will be. You’re officially a true adult in a lot of ways, even though I know you’re already mature beyond your years.
A lot is going to happen in the next ten years. There are going to be highs that you’ll remember forever. Memories you’ll make that I don’t want to spoil now. Just remember to be present in the moment and soak up every single second.
Of course, there will also be lows. You’ll break a few hearts, and have your own heart broken more than once. There will be times where you feel so completely and utterly lost. Your world will crumble more than once.
But here’s the thing I know for sure. You’ll make it through, and each time you’ll come out stronger than before. Be open to finding new passions. Embrace the unknown. Go easy on yourself. You’re a perfectionist, and that’s not going to change in ten years. But try not to put too much pressure on yourself to be perfect or have it all together.
The world will always throw new challenges at you. Your strength will be tested again and again. I can say this because I’ve been through it. Even now, I’m going through challenges I wouldn’t have expected two weeks ago. Life will have a way of keeping you on your toes.
Looking back at everything that’s happened over the last ten years, I can tell you I am so incredibly happy with how far you’ve come. Don’t forget to pause every once in a while. Look back and remember a time when you only dreamed of being where you currently are. Appreciate the things that are shaping you to become strong, fearless and independent.
As you enter into your 18th year, do so with joy and without reservation. Jump at every opportunity that comes your way. Celebrate every chance you get. And trust that you’ll always make the right decision because it will lead you to the place I’m at now.
I hope I have imparted some helpful wisdom into this letter for my 18-year-old self. If nothing else, it’s reminded my that everything will always work itself out.
Happy birthday, Kelsey! See you in ten years.
Xx, Kelsey
